Seeking validation in boys due to trauma

Seeking validation in boys due to trauma

Usually, situations and fleeting moments of pain you experience while in your younger years can physically and emotionally scar you.  I know enough about our lad, Sigmund Freud, to understand that childhood trauma manifests in your unconscious and that there can be a big metaphorical iceberg of pain floating around in your brain.  But, as [...]

Sorry, *the one* is not a real concept.

Sorry, *the one* is not a real concept.

After too-many moral-numbing pints, while simultaneously hoovering up tequila shots like it was nobodies business last weekend, my friends and I had a post-night out cat-fight regarding the concept of *the one*.  The subject has since been bubbling and now I am throwing my two pence into the mix.  I do not think, for me, the [...]

we are on a break

we are on a break

Cigarette Sounds readers, it is not you - it is me!  Honestly, I promise. Today's blog post is an extremely short snippet, allowing you quickly into a secret. I am letting you know that from today, August 13, until September 3, I will be taking a short break from writing, blogging, photographing and delving into my [...]